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"Has travelling changed your life?"

Ben Groundwater, Fairfax reporter (SMH online 18/1/2012) asks: "Has travelling changed your life?"

Here is his article:

No one ever becomes a hedge-fund manager. Or a stock-broker.

You never hear of anyone coming back from a big overseas trip and switching to the dark side. There's never been a dolphin trainer who's travelled the world and realised, damn, I should become a lawyer.

Epiphanies don't work like that. It goes the other way.

You quit corporate life to become a surf instructor. You ditch your nine-to-five for something a bit more fun.

There's nothing like travel to sort through your life. It's that time away from the everyday, I guess, that gives people the chance to decide what they really want to do with themselves. And that can lead to some major changes.

It's not just the time off. Travelling gives you a window into other people's lives, which can lend a fresh perspective on your own. OK, so there's a guy in Thailand who seems perfectly happy with being a fisherman – so why do we put ourselves through the daily miserable grind?

Travel is a hell of a lot of fun, too, which makes you think: wouldn't it be nice to feel like this all the time? Now, how do I make it happen?

That's the kind of epiphany that makes you quit your job and find something you really like; or dump your partner and find someone you really like; or leave your hometown and make a new life elsewhere.

I've never really had one, unfortunately – not a bolt from the blue when I suddenly decided, yep, things have to change.

I travelled for a year after high school, and yet still came back and attempted a science degree. (It lasted six months.) I took another year off as a career break, and yet still continued as a sub-editor. (That lasted a couple of years.)

I've never ditched it all and become a social worker, or suddenly realised that I want to move to Bali and become an experimental electronic artist. But I'll bet there are hundreds of people out there who have (alright, maybe not the Bali electronic artist thing, but you get the idea).

Like I said earlier, travel seems to inspire moves towards the creative, or the socially responsible, or at least the enjoyable.

Plenty of people take off to travel because they're unhappy with the status quo; being away from home just reinforces the idea that something has to change. Life has to be better.

Maybe the real epiphany that most people have on the road is that life should be fun, and it should be spent doing something that you're not going to hate for 40 hours every week.

That's why you'll search long and hard to find someone who's come back from an overseas sojourn with a burning passion for finance (unless, hell, that's what really makes them happy).

It's almost a dangerous prospect, really. When you make the commitment to leave your normal life and travel for long time, you never know what you'll make of it all when you get back.

Your whole mindset might have changed; your whole world might have changed.

But then, that's what so great about it.


I must admit to coming to my own "epiphany" or realisation that travelling is what makes me happy, and if I were to ask myself why, the answer is encapsulated in the following phrase:

"Travelling gives you a window into other people's lives, which can lend a fresh perspective on your own."

Have you ever asked yourself if and how travelling has changed your life? 

 

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Comment by Liana on January 19, 2012 at 20:47

I had my first big trip when I was 5, my family took a boat the "Marconi" to Italy. It was 1 month long and we went via the cape of South Africa and then spent 4 months in Europe. I know I definitely got the travel bug then and I have travelled ever since, which of course has shaped my thinking, shaped how I have used my money and introduced me to people all over the world. It has made me realise how blessed we are in Australia and in my life and therefore given me a more balanced perspective in life, (like the article says fisherman being perfectly happy in their lives when they have so much less than we do), especially when times have been difficult for me.

Comment by Marianna on January 18, 2012 at 18:59

Hi Gary - it seems to me that 'big' cities the world over have similar characteristics: they try to cater to the 'tourist' and seem to lose some of their atmosphere and customs. These days I love travelling to smaller cities and centres where you really experience an awakening of the senses as well as meeting and interacting with genuine locals.   

Comment by Gary Chow on January 18, 2012 at 18:40

I would say travelling has changed my life. When I was in my mid-twenties, I ditched my job, left a relationship, and hit the road for 20 months. I went first to the States, then to Canada, across to Europe, North Africa and finally home. I had so many wonderful experiences and met so many interesting people along the way. One thing I learned while travelling is this: it is the journey as much as the destination that makes it all worthwhile. Another thing I learned is that it is the little things that stick in your memory. Seemingly mundane things like the day when an Italian man gently pushed me to the front of what passes for a queue in the local market in Florence so that I could be served before the locals. And like the time when a friend and I camped in a park in Munich and was chased off my angry park wardens the next morning. It's the small things not the grand sights although they too can be marvelous. Kris Kristofferson wrote a song (Me and Bobby McGee) and there's a memorable line that sums up travelling perfectly: 'freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose'. Amen to that!

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